Stop Shoulding Yourself!
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I get stuck in The Shoulds all the time – should be thinner, richer, more successful, blah, blah, blah – and write about it from time to time in my newsletter, blog and Facebook community…and dedicated an episode of my Camera Ready & Abel podcast to it.
My dear friend Vivian Manning-Schaffel took The Shoulds to a whole new level in her brilliant piece for Shondaland called Stop Shoulding Yourself: