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Beware the Validation Trap

True Story: I was recently in SEPHORA lamenting that two of my favorite lipsticks had been discontinued without warning.
The sales associate was offhand and a tad blunt: Yeah, they probably didn’t sell well.
This is what I heard: Lipstick loser.

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Beware the Validation Trap

True Story: I was recently in SEPHORA lamenting that two of my favorite lipsticks had been discontinued without warning.
The sales associate was offhand and a tad blunt: Yeah, they probably didn’t sell well.
This is what I heard: Lipstick loser.

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…And the Oscar for Best Casting Goes To…

Yes, it’s time for my annual rant about The Academy’s Big Insult.

Despite the BAFTAs getting on board with a Casting category in 2019 there is still no Oscar for Best Casting even though the current president of the Academy’s Board of Governors is a Casting Director. David Rubin’s credits include

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Make-It-Your-Own

Make It Your Own

To make something one’s own is to take something and adapt it to oneself. Knowing how to do this is absolutely essential in the camera ready universe.

Whether you are auditioning for a project and reading the same script as everyone else or interviewing for a job and meeting all of

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My 2023 Word of the Year: Refinement

My 2023 Word of the Year: Refinement

I wish I knew who came up with the brilliant notion of replacing the traditional New Year’s Resolution with one single word to focus on for the coming year. I’d like to thank them.

Your word is an organizing principle or theme, perhaps even your annual north star, instead of a

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Thanks for the permission slip to think and dream bigger J Dilla!

Thanks for the permission slip to think and dream bigger J Dilla!

I know I’m not the target demographic and you may be thinking, huh, Barb, I did not expect this reference, but I was genuinely excited when I read that Quest Love is executive-producing a documentary, Dilla Time – “part biography, part musicology, and part musical meditation” – adapted from

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Roe v Wade: The post I never imagined writing

Roe v Wade: The post I never imagined writing

If you think overturning Roe v. Wade has nothing to do with you – or is an act worth celebrating – I invite you to read my story with an open heart.

I am a deeply private person. I have good friends who will read this and say I had no

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ummer Reading 2022

Summer Reading 2022

Tsundoku is the Japanese word for all the books you buy but never read. This summer I am determined to make a dent in the pile of books I acquired in 2020 and 2021 but still haven’t read. It’s a little misleading that a solid chunk of the stack

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The How + Why You Need to be Owning It

The How + Why You Need to be Owning It

Owning It means taking responsibility for your thoughts and actions.

Owning it in the camera ready world is essential to how you show up.

My dear friend, casting director – coach – actor – documentary filmmaker, Sean De Simone, joined me on my Camera Ready & Abel podcast to go deep with

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How to handle a hostile audience member

How to handle a hostile audience member

I am not here to discuss the Smith-Rock contretemps that distracted from Questlove receiving his first Best Documentary Feature Oscar for the brilliant and emotionally powerful “Summer of Soul” – many far more qualified than me have weighed in – but just after we all watched it happen in

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Fake It Til You Make: Good Strategy or Set Up for Failure?

Fake It Til You Make: Good Strategy or Set Up for Failure?

I was riveted watching Shonda Rhimes‘ Netflix series, Inventing Anna about “fake German heiress” Anna Delvey. I could not get enough of Julia Garner as Anna + it brings up all sorts of questions about “faking it” which Vivian Manning-Schaffel explores in this excellent piece for Shondaland, including a quote

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It’s My Bizaversary: What I’ve Learned in 20 Years

It’s My Bizaversary: What I’ve Learned in 20 Years

Cue the Tony! Toni! Toné! It’s my bizaversary.

20 years.

It’s been super easy and smooth sailing the whole way.

Ha! If you believe that, may I interest you in my favorite bridge down the street?

Like Lisa Roth, founder of Rock-A-Bye Baby, I’m an accidental entrepreneur.

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How To Get On TV

How To Get On TV

Some people will be wrong, and that’s okay – Lisa Kudrow on handling rejection

EVERYBODY asks me how to get on TV. Elizabeth Wagmeister – who didn’t have an agent or a reel when I cast her on Page Six TV – provideS the playbook you’ve been looking for in this

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Summer Reading 2021

I’m one of those people who couldn’t read during the pandemic. It was too hard to focus. I needed big print and pretty pictures. Translation: Netflix and Pinterest.

And yet, books were my favorite form of retail therapy, so I have quite the stack vying for my attention now that I

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Stop Shoulding Yourself!

Stop Shoulding Yourself!

I get stuck in The Shoulds all the time – should be thinner, richer, more successful, blah, blah, blah – and write about it from time to time in my newsletter, blog and Facebook community…and dedicated an episode of my Camera Ready & Abel podcast to it.

My dear friend Vivian

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Tina Turner: Inducted into the Manifesters Hall of Fame

Tina Turner: Inducted into the Manifesters Hall of Fame

It was wonderful, well-deserved and long overdue when it was announced May 12, 2021 that Tina Turner was finally inducted into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame. Today I am inducting Tina Turner into the Manifesters Hall of Fame.

Icon is an overused word but let’s face it, if you

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NOWCASTING EXPERIENCED HOST with DESIGN/BUILD SKILLS

#NOWCASTING EXPERIENCED HOST with DESIGN/BUILD SKILLS

SEEKING: EXPERIENCED HOST with DESIGN/BUILD SKILLS for fun, puzzle-based challenge show (think: The Floor is Lava meets Craftopia meets Escape Room).

The vibe is friend/mentor/favorite camp counselor: Fun, Bubbly, Energetic, Likable.

Series shoots up to 3 months Q1-Q2 2021 in Atlanta, GA area (transportation and housing provided). Non-union.

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Summer Reading List 2020 ?

Summer Reading List 2020 ?

Living from one Blursday to the next these past several months, summer snuck up on me this year.

I am grateful to a childhood friend for tagging me in a Facebook Favorite Books Challenge to spur me to action and listify my Summer Reading List 2020.

Similar to the FB Challenge, I

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Why YES is the Wrong Career Advice

Why YES is the Wrong Career Advice

Don’t take yes for an answer is fabulous advice when you stop and think about it. Many accomplished people say it was hearing no that motivated them to work harder and achieve their greatness.

I’m a big believer in positive psychology, the yes and ethos of improv comedy and embracing life

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CASE STUDY: John Krasinski #SGN

CASE STUDY: John Krasinski #SGN

Are you watching John Krasinski’s Some Good News? It’s taken YouTube and the world by storm since it launched a little over a month ago (2.21M subscribers/50 million+ views and counting.)

I’m waiting for Episode 6 to drop as I type. If you haven’t checked it out yet I don’t want

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Are You Camera-Ready? You Should Be. Learn How!

Are You Camera-Ready? You Should Be. Learn How!

The sudden surge in video conferencing due to working from home has put a spotlight on what’s been true for a long time: Everyone must be camera-ready.

Even if you have never thought about being on-camera (Me? Television?) you were probably on camera before #WFH without realizing it.

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5 Perfect Films, 5 Friends (The Incomplete List)

5 Perfect Films, 5 Friends (The Incomplete List)

Twitter at its best is a wonderful universe. An exchange of ideas for like-minded travelers and lovers of words. Good lighting not required. It’s keeping me company during the long isolating days and nights of the coronavirus, never more so than this week’s 5 Perfect Films, 5 Friends challenge that

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I’m a natural optimist but the coronavirus pandemic has seriously tested me. These are scary times. Like everyone, my emotions run up and down. Last week I felt I had a handle on things. This week, not so much.

You Should Look for Signs. Here’s Why.

But I believe in signs. They are everywhere if we are open to seeing them. I don’t always see them. Sometimes I’m caught up in my own mischegoss.

Yesterday though, day 32 of working from home, I was walking down my Brooklyn block to get some fresh air and my bi-weekly

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April Virtual Classes!

April Virtual Classes!

​I’m optimistic there’s a light at the end of this long tunnel and have added three new virtual TV Hosting/Media Training classes. This is the perfect time to work on skills, stay focused on your big picture and feel good by doing good: 20% of the class fee is

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How to Avoid Zoom Gloom

ow to Avoid Zoom Gloom

Zoom Gloom is real. It shows up when that dread one feels for yet another video conference call translates into low, dud spud energy and bad camera angles.

The first thing to do is get in the habit of checking in with yourself because as Gabby Bernstein says, your vibes speaking

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How to Zoom Like a Star! Part One

What a year last week was! I hope you are doing well and practicing self-care and social distancing. Now that my family is settled and adjusting to the new normal, I am beginning to look outward again. I was having virtual cocktails last night with a teacher-friend and giving them

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How To Slay Your TV Appearance

How To Slay Your TV Appearance

People ask me all the time: What do I need to do to crush my TV appearance.

And I tell everybody the same thing – no matter if they are promoting a book, a tv show, their recipes or relationship advice – The number one way to slay your TV appearance

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